Unraveling the Mystery of Maude Johnson Oakes


Maude Ellen Johnson Oakes in 1937

Longtime readers will recall our fondness for the television program Who Do You Think You Are? and our interest in learning more about our great-grandmother, Maude Ellen Johnson Oakes, who as a teenager in the 1890s traveled with her family in a covered wagon from Illinois to Oklahoma.

Maude lived to the ripe old age of 92, so she witnessed firsthand an astonishing amount of change in the world. As we wrote in our previous post about her, after coming to Oklahoma in a covered wagon, she lived long enough to see men on the moon, not to mention the advent of cars, radio, moving pictures and television, women being given the right to vote (she was nearly 40 at the time), the civil rights movement, and on and on.

She missed out on the internet by a good many years, though, and that’s a shame, in a way, because that’s how we continue to pick up more tidbits about her.

We already knew that, in 1920, Maude and her then-husband, Patterson Oakes, lived in Pauls Valley, Oklahoma, about 60 miles south of Oklahoma City, with their three teenage sons. Patterson was a rural carrier (mailman? Not sure) and Maude was a salesclerk at a dry goods store.

1922 McCall's advertisementBut shortly thereafter, Patterson apparently did Maude wrong once too often and she divorced him (we have no idea what his offense was, but our grandfather never once spoke of him to his own children, much less us grandkids). The three sons graduated from Pauls Valley High and shortly thereafter Maude moved with the boys to Norman, Oklahoma, where Herbert, Cecil (our grandfather) and Elmer all attended the University of Oklahoma.

We knew that Maude was eventually employed by that same university, working in the women’s gymnasium (she continued working there into her 80s and protested loudly and long when they finally made her retire), but we hadn’t known what she did prior to that after gathering up her belongings and her boys and moving to Norman from Pauls Valley.

But we stumbled upon some new info recently, thanks to the Oklahoma Historical Society’s website. McCall’s was, it seems, a prominent Norman department store. It was in operation by 1909 (and quite possibly earlier), and its slogan that year was “McCall’s: The Daylight Store”; by 1922, the good folks at McCall’s were going with “Norman’s Greatest Store.”

From a 1922 McCall’s advertisement that appeared in a newspaper called The Norman Transcript (still in operation today), we learned that Maude was a department manager at McCall’s—Staple Cottons and Linens was the department she oversaw. And as you’ll see, the advertisement even included a photograph of our Maude.

And all this by typing a couple of key words into the search tool on the OHS website. We think Maude would be impressed!

In search of Pat


Maude Ellen Johnson Oakes in 1937

We only knew one of our great-grandparents, our mother’s grandmother Maude Ellen Johnson Oakes, who as a teenager in the 1890s, traveled with her family in a covered wagon from Illinois to Oklahoma. She lived to the age of 92, so in her lifetime, she saw an astonishing number of changes. Think of it—she came to Oklahoma in a covered wagon in her youth and lived long enough to see men on the moon, not to mention the advent of cars, radio, moving pictures, television, women being given the right to vote (she was nearly 40 then), the civil rights movement, and on and on.

Distracted by the tunnel vision of youth, it never occurred to us to ask Maude, who was in her eighties and nineties when we knew her, about her husband, and though we’re not proud of it, we’ve long considered genealogy buffs kind of, well, dorky.

But with the recent passing of our mother and our weekly devotion to Who Do You Think You Are?, the notion of tracking down info on our ancestors suddenly began to appeal. We took Ancestry.com, which is featured frequently on WDYTYA?, up on their offer of a two-week trail membership, and began digging.

It’s remarkable, really, what one can uncover in a short amount of time.


Patterson and Maude
in happier times

In 1900, Maude married a man named Patterson Nehemiah Oakes, who was born in North Carolina (as was his father before him; his mother was born in Tennessee). Maude was born in Illinois (Taylorville, we learned from a news clipping published at the time of her death), as was her mother. Her father was born in Ohio.

In 1910, Maude and Patterson lived in a town called Canadian in the Texas panhandle. All three of their sons—Cecil (my grandfather), Herbert, and Elmer—had already been born. Patterson was working as the manager of a confectionery.

In 1920, they were still married and living in Pauls Valley, Oklahoma, about 60 miles south of Oklahoma City. Their address was 102 N. Elm Street. Patterson was a civil servant—a rural carrier (which I’m guessing refers to mail). Maude was a saleslady at a dry goods store.

Maude is listed in the 1920 census as being 37 years old, which is a couple of years younger than we thought—we had her as being born in 1881, but perhaps she fudged her age a bit? Patterson was 41.

One additional tidbit of info: According to that census, everyone in the family—Patterson, Maude, and their three sons Cecil, Herbert, and Elmer—could read and write.

We’ve not managed to pin down the date, but Maude and Patterson were divorced sometime relatively soon after that 1920 census was taken. We know it wasn’t long after the census because Cecil, their eldest son who was born in 1904, was still in high school at the time. We may never know why Maude and Patterson (did he go by Pat? Not sure) parted—Granddad never spoke of the divorce or, indeed, Patterson himself to our mother and her siblings.

Now, let’s jump forward to 1930.


Maude and Pepper, greatest
dog ever, in 1970

Patterson is now married to a woman named Ellen, who was born in Indiana (as were both her parents) and was 12 years older than Patterson. In 1920, he is 52; she is 64.

Ellen has been married before (as has Patterson, of course).

They live at 338 East 3rd Street in Oilton, Oklahoma, about 39 miles west of Tulsa, where he is employed as the manager of a filling station. Ellen works as a seamstress out of their home.

They own a radio (yes, that was a question on the 1930 census).

Patterson died in 1948. The date, place, and cause of death we’ve not tracked down, though we’re still on the case. Maude died in February 1972, on our mother’s birthday.

That’s all we have so far. I’d still like to know what came between Patterson and Maude in the early 1920s, but when you consider that, six or seven weeks ago, we didn’t even know a single thing about Maude’s husband—not even his name—it’s not a bad start.